Kajamelu4,
I bought the tear to be with my kids more, so if I attend a gathering I'm bringing Little Sarge. I brought him to the Redwood Gathering and it was fine....well, at least I thought so. The other campers might have a different opinion.
In my mind camping is a family event. A gathering is just a large group of campers. I must say that others whose kids have grown most likely don't want to take care of anyone elses kids, so its up to you to entertain your own kids, which means you might have to miss some of the gathering's events, but that's the price of having a little one along.
My two cents.
-Sarge