Hello!
I created an account here a while back and then after reading some good advise quickly decided that I was barking up the wrong tree with the ideas/goals for a trailer. So after a bit more mulling and a few life changes I am back.
One thing that has changed (other than now having a dog to travel with us) is that I am no longer hell-bent on being able to haul my trailer with a subcompact. I currently have an aging Pontiac Vibe (Toyota Matrix/re-bodied Corolla) and am hanging on to it until I make a camper decision -- then buying a suitable vehicle for towing.
I might still be wishful thinking, but what I am currently thinking is a trailer with toilet and shower (Mrs says this is a must), can be towed in dining configuration (so we can eat in trailer with dog as needed). So now off to see what folks have done...
Paul