I resemble that remark ...
Charlie , also retired (supposedly) , we found that sometimes you just have to draw the old “Line in the sand” ... Given the fact that Women want EVERYTHING (sorry Ladies, but you know it’s True ) you’ll be soon out of YOUR space to make room for all her "$#1+” and her car ... and when it gets messy , guess who will be called upon to clean it up ... again! Been there , done that , "hated it" ! Best thing for older couples is separate individual “spaces" , usually the more separate , the Better ...