Ok Guys,
Here is what I found out so far...
I had my Electrican neighbor come over tonight, and after only two beers,
I showed him a printout of all your ideas here.
Well, when he read the reply from "Nitetimes" he set his beer down and did this little Aah-Ha thing. And said "Thats it" ! "get me a screwdriver and a cutter"
So we took the cover off the breaker box and he took out this little 4" piece of ground wire and said "There ya go, that otta do it".
Nitetimes idea of "having the ground bus bonded to the box" was the problem. {what ever that is}
So we had another Beer, (still a few shy of the night we wired it in the first place) and I'm back in Business. He said having it the way we did, made it "like it's own little circuit" ?? {not right}
We are off to the lake cabin in the morning.
Thanks to all who had imput into this quick fix on the Weekender.
I'll reply back next week to let you know if this did indeed fix the problem.
Gratefull Gadget