"GIRLFRIEND" You got it made just mention that marriage is give and take and as soon as she hears to "M" word her heart will melt. Then you can compromise and come down for the day on Saturday. Be sure and develope amnesia early Sunday morning about the "M" word and all will be right with the world again. Then you both can go about happily install cabinets. I told " old what's her name" I'm going Saturday that's the take.
Then I gotta cook for and put up with her family and friends Sunday that's the give.
Life was so much less complicated when you just clubbed one and drug her back to your cave. ( just kiddin' girls )